Gifts since is an art, has its own common rules, to whom, what to send, how to send are secret, must not blind, Hu Song, excessive send send.

A gift, the weight is appropriate

Generally speaking, the gift is too light, and of little significance, it is misleading to despise him, and if the ceremony is too light to ask others to do things more difficult, the possibility of success is almost zero. However, the gift is too expensive, can make the person receiving the gift is suspected of bribery, especially to superiors, colleagues should pay more attention to. Most people may decline, or even accept, will pay, or future will surely try to salute, so do not force people to consume? Therefore, to each other to accept scale, choose appropriate value of gifts, strive for less money, more and more money to do a good work.

In two, a suitable interval

A time interval is also very particular about, too often too numerous or long interval is not suitable. The giver may flush, or ask for help to cut, then often packages to deliver to, some people think that appearance, will be able to win the goodwill of others, come to think of it, actually otherwise. Because of you to the frequency of such gifts purpose too. In addition, reciprocity, people also must also love to you. In general, to select the important festivals, birthday gifts, festive gifts is appropriate, not only do not appear abrupt must, had received a also feel at ease and justified, satisfy both sides.

Three, understand the customs and taboos

Gifts to former should understand the recipient 's identity, interests, national habits, so that gifts out of trouble. A man went to the hospital to see the patient, to bring a bag of apples to show sympathy, which leads to trouble, when the patient is in Shanghai, Shanghai called "apple" and" died" two words are pronounced the same. Apple has not sent to curse people died, because the sender does not understand a situation, make part. In view of this, gifts, carefully, to avoid new problems crop up unexpectedly. For example, do not send the clock, because the" bell" and" end" homophonic, let a person feel unlucky; to culture high intellectual send you a bad painting is very interesting; to Muslims to have pig 's image as a decorative pattern of gift, may let a person out.

In four, the gift to be meaningful

The gift is the feeling of the carrier. Any gift that the giver of unique mind, or reward, or ask for help, or contact the feelings of others. So, you choose the gift must be consistent with your heart, and to feel your gift gifts beautifully, feel precious. In fact, the best gift should be according to their tastes and choices, meaningful, afford much food for thought, extraordinary quality did not become visible gift. Therefore, choosing a gift to consider when its ideological, artistic, interesting, memorial and many other factors, and strive to create new styles, conform to no conventional pattern.