Her husband is a very " rich man", because of his many friends. As the local people, have a play with mud grew up in a small, as a nature bold air man, as he joined the army, be transferred to civilian work, made a number of friends, not help him so good popularity and proud, and often boasted that his vision is good, for such a charismatic husband.

But after marriage I found many friends, husband, is a warm and generous becomes our marriage reef, from time to time to lull us into a warm living collision have towering waves. On one occasion, I accidentally fell, a bad fall, mouth sewn stitch, the pain can not eat something. The very next day falls on a Saturday morning, husband said: " I will buy you a delicious, today take care of wife. " Although the laugh out of mouth pain, but after listening to her husband's words, I still smile. But this time it did not last long, husband 's phone rang, on the phone, he came to me and said: " wife, I am sorry, old leadership, people will ask him together, I have to go. " I would like to also did not want to say: " do not go, stay with me. " Husband also explained: "the old leadership rarely come, I do not go wrong. " I said: " I fall down, you don't accompany me also not suitable. " Husband "big man ." the onset of seizures, make me to eat the medicine and several boxes of milk in front of me, saying, " don't forget to take medicine to go ". This goes to the evening, I am hungry mouth pain, anger and several times. Finally, the husband came back, hands down is carrying a pile of liquid nutritional supplements, mouth say " wife to understand me ", my tears with anger and gushing out, he pushed him, " I love you, you do not take care of me, and I also understand you? " A storm was coming ... ...

Another time I just got back from a business trip, as we prepare to have a romantic candlelight dinner, husband of the telephone rang again, said he to looking for a friend's dog, people from the county was brought in, let the husband to bring. The husband is more agile, mouth promised, would go on to go outside. I was anxious, rushed to stop him, he said: " come on, people waiting, come to accompany you to eat. " I continue to tear his clothes, saying: " let your friends to bring the dog do? " "No, I promise to do I have to do. " Then, I walked away. To this end, we cold for a week. Such a quarrel happened, I thought, this marriage is it right? Wrong, I need a husband not this way, my life should not be like this.

This state of confusion until the " Maggie ". Mai Qi is O Henry's novel " Mai Qi presents " the heroine, she and her husband love each other very much, but very poor, Christmas comes but didn't have the money to buy each other gifts. Maggie is the most precious thing she has left the beautiful long hair, her husband is the most precious thing of the family a gold pocket watch. On Christmas day, they all took to give each other gifts, Maggie gave her husband was a gold watch chain, therefore, she sold her long hair; her husband gave Maggie is a set jewelry comb, to let the wife to the beautiful long hair, therefore, he sold the gold watch ... ... Mai Qi's story tells us, when you really love someone, you will give some important to you and to give each other some things, what is important to them. Marriage means responsibility, sacrifice and understanding. Now, husband often give up some friends to accompany me to do what I want to do, because he knows I'm in marriage needs a good, warm and be the feeling of importance. I, in his plan was come unexpectedly things change, will say to him : "go, go home ", because I know a friend is the life of husband happy, warm generous husband is the principle of life, and, after him some time to accompany me, life.